netStream remove or kill???

[davej]

Hi all
I am writing a custom video player as a class. I have it all working great, play, pause, stop, etc. I can instantiate that class either on main timeline or another class and all is well. The problem I have is removing it. if I have a sprite container called locContainer instantiate my class

var locContainer  = new Sprite();
addchild(locContainer )
var locPlayer:playerClass = new playerClass(locPlayer);
locContainer.addChild(locPlayer)

this works but if I remove locPlayer the audio still plays the video and custom controls are removed fine just the audio

locContainer.removeChildAt(0)

the class is too complicate to paste here but it uses NetConnection and the video classes

ncConnection=new NetConnection  ;
            ncConnection.addEventListener(NetStatusEvent.NET_STATUS,netStatusHandler);
            ncConnection.connect(null);

I thought removeChild should remove all children of that child

any help would be great