thanks for the link to that post..dunno why i didn't came across that before
i tried out every single code in that post..this is my progress
for mail.php here is the code
<?php
$emailTo = "
[email protected]" ;
$name = $POST ['name' ];
$email = $POST ['email' ];
$message = $POST ['message' ];
$headers = "From:PHPMailer \r\n Reply-To:".$POST ['email' ]." \r\n X-Mailer:PHP/ \r\n MIME-Version:1.0 \r\n Content-type:text/html;charset=iso-8859-1" ;
$msg = "" ;
$msg .= $_POST['name'] . "<BR>" ;
$msg .= $_POST['email'] . "<BR>" ;
$msg .= $_POST['message'] . "<BR>" ;
if( mail ($emailTo , $_POST['name'] , $msg , $headers )){
print "&status=okay" ;
}
else{
print "&status=error" ;
}
?>
and for the submit button here is the code:
on (release) {
if (message eq "" or name eq "")
{
stop();
}
else
{
lineAdapt();
myVars = new LoadVars();
myVars.message = message;
myVars.name = name;
myVars.email = email;
myVars.send("mail.php", "_blank", "POST");
gotoAndPlay(2);
}
}
after i upload it the status bar at the bottom of the browser said Done but I still didn't receive any emails.
I also try putting the loadVars one in my button:
on (release) {
if (message eq "" or name eq "")
{
setProperty("_root.contentHolder.errorWindow", _visible, true);
stop();
}
else
{
lineAdapt();
myVars = new LoadVars();
retVars = new LoadVars();
myVars.message = message;
myVars.name = name;
myVars.email = email;
myVars.sendAndLoad("mail.php", retVars, "POST");
retVars.onLoad = function(s) {
if(s) {
if(this.status == "okay") {
gotoAndPlay(2);
}
else {
gotoAndPlay(3);
}
}
}
}
}
but it didn't send at all. maybe it's how the files are constructed that's different so it doesn't work? i am sorry im completed new when it comes to PHP. i'll upload the files too. please help me

thanks so much!